If you’d like to have control over your finances, be free from debt and be comfortable enough to actually do the things you want or need to, then this one’s for you!
(It is basically a series in which I’ll be saving you the stress of going through the heaps of books you’ll find on the internet by giving you book recommendations on a specific need or desire you have, such as you’re interested in learning more about the Nigerian colonialism, or you’re a fan of Mystery novels!…)
This episode is on what you can read if you want Financial Stability!
My top 2 book recommendations for you are right here. Just watch the video on Instagram or on TikTok! These are top-notch book recommendations so you better not miss watching!
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Some of us like to feel things deeply. We enjoy deep and meaningful experiences and this also applies to our preferences in books! If this is you, then this episode is for you!
(It is basically a series in which I’ll be saving you the stress of going through the heaps of books you’ll find on the internet by giving you book recommendations on a specific need or desire you have, such as you’re interested in learning more about the Nigerian colonialism, or you’re a fan of Mystery novels!…)
This episode is on what you can read if you’re a fan of Tearjerkers! (Books that can make you sad or even let out some tears)
Here are my top 3 book recommendations for you.
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Book Title: Trauma Author:Adekola Temitayo. Published: 2021 My Rating: 4.72/5.0.⭐️ A simple, short story with themes like Dyslexia, Sickle Cell Anemia, Mental Health and some Traditional & Cultural Misconceptions, particularly of the Yoruba Tribe (I RECOMMEND!)
Imagine being deeply cut ON YOUR FACE several times with a special blade as a child. No, don’t think of just the pain, think of the fact that you will have to live with these marks forever. You have no choice…. The marks will always be something that defines you.
And all this is because of a misconception. Do you feel outraged just imagining it? Then you’ll understand why books like this one are necessary.
So for some backstory…..:
I was asked to read/review this book a few weeks ago by the author…. It’s a very short book but it took me quite a while to finish it and get to reviewing it (because I had other things on my plate)
But here we are now. So let’s get right into the review…..!
What really stood out to me, in this book is how educative it is. The author’s writing style is smooth and comfy, with clear, concise and easy to understand explanations of each concept included in the story.
This book takes a stab at creating awareness mainly on two important societal topics: Dyslexia and Sickle Cell Anemia through the lives of its two main characters: Ayodele and AJ respectively.
“Children with dyslexia should be treated with love and understanding. LOVE is the keyword here, parents, teachers, guardians, family members, friends of any dyslexic patient should understand that they didn’t choose to be dyslexic and the more reason we should help them get better together.”
Dr Ademola
Ayodele is a boy with dyslexia who is constantly harassed and bullied both at home and at school for being an “olodo”, a Nigerian slang used to describe someone who is a dullard. Ayodele knows he is different from others, but he has no idea why.
“According to Yoruba’s tradition, if a woman gives birth to a child and the child dies before becoming an adult, such a child is called “Abiku” especially if the process of giving birth and dying of the child keeps recurring.”
AJ
AJ, who attends the same school as Ayodele on the other hand, is very intelligent but depressed and seemingly cold. He is constantly castigated for being an “Abiku” due to the tribal markings on his face which his family agreed should be given to him when he was just 5 years old, in other to stop his continuous health issues and to prevent him from dying so young as their other kids had.
In reality as he later discovered,the reason for his continued weakness/sickness was not due to “Abiku” but because of the fact that he had Sickle Cell Anemia, due to his parent’s ignorance (they both had AS blood genotypes) And as you can imagine, this makes AJ resent his parents, especially his father who constantly verbally abused him.
The book takes us through the development of a strong friendship between Ayodele and AJ as they get to understand each others pains and struggles.
The story comes to a rather unexpected end with a twist that really shocked me and only served to emphasize why awareness on these topics should be promoted. And I can’t tell you how it ended, because that would be a MAJOR spoiler!
If you’re interested in reading this book too, here’s the link to get it! (Soft copies ;PDFs/EPUBs are available, plus it’s very affordable; you can see for yourself through the link!)
The Author really has a flair for writing interesting and educative biopsychosocial themed books as seen in his other books as well as this one.
Did you enjoy this review?. Have you read this book?. Please let me know your thoughts about it in the comment section below!.
You are welcome to Episode 19 of the YOUNG AND BOOKED SERIES.
Here with me today, is our guest. Meet Mr Adekola Temitayo,a Nigerian Storyteller who explores the captivating themes surrounding African identity, aiming to promote and enlighten others about the richness of the African culture
He is going to answer a few insightful questions about himself, his journey and perspective as a young author in Nigeria , and you’ll definitely enjoy this so please grab a seat and let’s get right into it!
Keno: (with smiles) Welcome to the YOUNG AND BOOKED Series Mr Temitayo, thank you for having this interview.
Mr Temitayo: (smiles) Thank you Keno, for having me as a guest on this amazing series, it’s a special thing you’re doing on this blog.
Keno: (smiles) Alright, I’ll get right into the questions now…..When did you start writing and why did you decide you wanted to become an Author?
I discovered that writing provided me with a means to effectively communicate and express myself
Mr Temitayo:(smiles) I started writing at a young age, mainly creating children’s comic stories. Drawing and watching cartoons inspired my passion for storytelling as a kid. However, my decision to become an author came later when I was in my second year of University. The reason behind this choice was not solely because I enjoyed writing stories, but because I discovered that writing provided me with a means to effectively communicate and express myself, along with sharing my opinions and ideas with others.
Keno: (nods) I can relate to that last sentence there. Question 2, How did you go from just having a dream to actually achieving that dream of becoming a published Author? What little and/or large steps did you take towards it?
Mr Temitayo: (smiles) As the saying goes “Your heart knows the path that aligns with your true purpose, and when you follow it, you tap into a reservoir of inner strength that propels you forward.” Becoming a published author was a journey that started with a dream and required both small and significant steps to achieve. After completing my first book and receiving positive feedback from friends, I was determined to see it published. In a state of excitement, I reached out to a publisher and obtained an estimated cost to publish 1000 copies. With a sense of determination, I began making calls and exploring options. Throughout this process, I am grateful for the support and guidance of my mom, who played a significant role in helping me bring my dream to fruition.
Keno: Wow, interesting. Question 3, What is the best thing about being an Author to you?
Mr Temitayo: For me, Being an author allows me to use my imagination to build entire worlds and characters, feeling like a “small god” (smiles), which is what I find to be the best part of what I do. It’s a means of self-expression that enables me to communicate my ideas, tales, and thoughts to readers everywhere while also witnessing their appreciation and learning from my writings. I find it to be joyful.
Keno:(laughs) A “small god” indeed, it is nice that you find joy in it. Question 4, What life lesson(s) have you picked up on your journey as an Author?
One crucial lesson I have embraced is the importance of unwavering consistency in pursuing my dreams and staying true to what I believe works for me.
Mr Temitayo: (smiles) Throughout my journey as an author, I have learned valuable life lessons that resonate deeply within me. One crucial lesson I have embraced is the importance of unwavering consistency in pursuing my dreams and staying true to what I believe works for me. You know often, those around us may lack faith in our aspirations and the visions we hold for ourselves. However, it is ultimately our determination and dedication that validates our path. We must prove ourselves to the sceptics, and when the pieces of the puzzle start to fall into place, people will rejoice in our accomplishments.
Keno: (nods) Those are some special lessons you’ve picked up. I’m inspired. Question 5, What is your favorite genre to write and why?
Mr Temitayo:Drama is my cherished genre. As a budding screenwriter with a profound admiration for Wole Soyinka. Through my scripts and theatrical works, my profound reverence for the man is evident, illuminating my passion for drama.
Keno: (nods) That’s interesting. Question 6, Your books “TRAUMA” & “SCOURGE” truly have special levels of depth and poignancy that can be denoted even from the blurb. I personally feel so too. So I’m rather curious…. What experiences (people, places or events) inspired you to write them?
My inspiration for “TRAUMA” stemmed from a combination of personal curiosity and past experiences. As for “SCOURGE,” the inspiration came from real-world events and the prevalent issue of rape, particularly its profound impact on society and the girl child.
Mr Temitayo: (smiles) Thank you. I often receive that critique frequently, and it’s quite understandable. Even in my book blurbs, I intentionally cultivated a sense of anticipation to pique the curiosity of my readers, enticing them to delve into my books and uncover the truth behind the events that transpire within. My inspiration for “TRAUMA” stemmed from a combination of personal curiosity and past experiences. While in Uni, I encountered a lecture that discussed the story of a child named Aja, who was mistakenly labelled as Abiku by his bigoted parents, but it was sickle cell anaemia. This sparked my interest in exploring the intersection of sickle cell disease and Abiku. I came across news on dyslexia while scrolling through Instagram in 2020, which prompted me to combine these topics in my writing. The aim was to shed light on the challenges faced by individuals with these conditions, raise awareness among parents and teachers about dyslexia, and highlight the need for expensive treatments like bone marrow transplants for sickle cell patients. I also incorporated the concept of tribal marks to immerse the readers in the perspective of someone like Aja, who was misunderstood due to cultural misconceptions. To ensure accuracy, I conducted research through travels to Oyo and Osun, also asking medical professionals and friends questions, and utilizing online resources. The book delves into the complexities of resilience, the lasting impact of trauma, and the process of healing and recovery.
As for “SCOURGE,” the inspiration came from real-world events and the prevalent issue of rape, particularly its profound impact on society and the girl child. During my time in Osun, I had the privilege of hearing captivating stories and learning about the town’s cultural taboos from my friend’s grandfather, whom we fondly called Baba Arowosafe. Fascinated by these narratives, I decided to delve deeper into the history and customs of the town, incorporating them into the setting of my book “SCOURGE.” Sadly, Baba passed away after my initial interviews for “TRAUMA,” so I dedicated “SCOURGE” to him as a tribute. The book explores themes of resilience, survival, and the indomitable spirit of humanity when faced with overwhelming challenges.
Keno: (nods) Wow. I appreciate the in-depth explanations. Question 7, If you were to summarize the type of Author you are in a sentence, what would it be?
Mr Temitayo: I am a Nigerian playwright, short story writer, and scriptwriter who explores captivating themes surrounding African identity, aiming to promote and enlighten others about the richness of African culture.
Keno: Interesting. Finally, Question 8, What type of works or projects can be expected from you in the future?
Mr Temitayo:As an aspiring screenwriter, my future projects will encompass a variety of works that aim to captivate audiences on the big screen or in my books. I am eager to collaborate with producers (any slight opportunity ) and bring my unique stories to life, ensuring that they resonate with viewers and leave a lasting impact. Additionally, I am particularly passionate about working on Pan-African stories. These narratives will focus on bringing together individuals from different African backgrounds, showcasing their diverse experiences, cultures, and perspectives. Through these projects, I hope to contribute to a more inclusive representation of African stories and foster a deeper understanding and appreciation of the continent’s rich.
Keno: (smiles) That’s so good. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. It was lovely to have you, Mr Adekola. Thank you for this interview and for being our guest on theYOUNG AND BOOKED Series.
Mr Temitayo: Thank you, It was a pleasure to do this with you. Dear Readers, I would love to connect with you on Instagram.
Keno: Also, this is your invitation to join our Instagram community @taleofthebook if you aren’t already with us! And you might want to check out Mr Adekola’s book “SCOURGE”.
As the saying goes “Your heart knows the path that aligns with your true purpose, and when you follow it, you tap into a reservoir of inner strength that propels you forward.” Becoming a published author was a journey that started with a dream and required both small and significant steps to achieve.
-Author Temitayo
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You are welcome to Episode 18 of the YOUNG AND BOOKED SERIES.
Here with me today, is our guest. Meet Mr Akanbi Taofeek, a Nigerian writer who writes to make poetry appealing to everyone, young or old, black, brown, or white and to declare poetry free of the false accusation that poetry is only for intellectuals and academics!
He is going to answer a few insightful questions about himself, his journey and perspective as a young author/poet in Nigeria. You will definitely find this interview to be inspiring, entertaining and even educative, so please grab a seat and let’s get right into it!
Keno: (with smiles) Welcome to the YOUNG AND BOOKED Series Mr Taofeek, thank you for having this interview.
Mr Taofeek: (smiles) Thank you Keno, for having me as a guest on this amazing series. What you’re doing here is something special.
Keno: (smiles) Alright, I’ll get right into the questions we have for you today. Let’s start with this; What is a common misconception about Poets or poetry that you’ve encountered since you identified as a Poet?
Mr Taofeek: That poetry is a gift, and poets are gifted. I don’t believe there’s such a thing as a “gift,” but only persistency and hard work. You only get more of what you give yourself to. If you give more of yourself to writing, you’ll become a better writer, and people will assume you’re gifted. If you give more of yourself to listening to speakers and giving speeches, you’ll become a better speaker, if you give more of yourself to sleeping, you’ll be good at it.
Keno: (nods) This is so true. I think a lot of people believe Poets have to be so talented and you know, “not ordinary”, perhaps thanks to historical big names like Shakespeare, Sylvia Plath, Wole Soyinka and so on. But in reality like you said, anyone can write poetry if they give themselves to it!…. Speaking of writing poetry, Question 2, What would be your number one piece of advice for someone who wants to start writing poetry but doesn’t know where to begin?
Mr Taofeek: (smiles) Here’s the secret formula to being a renowned author that many writers will not share with you: 1. Write! 2. Write! 3. Write! 4. Read X7! 5. Continue writing. Find your inspiration and just write! The reason most people don’t write is because they don’t know what to write about. Look for sources of inspiration in your surroundings (anything you can see right now, any animate or inanimate object), personal experiences, nature, relationships, emotions, or current events. Poetry can emerge from the simplest of observations or the most profound of reflections. Let your imagination and curiosity guide you. Write! Write! Write! READ! Then, after you’re done reading, read again! Then again, write! And keep the cycle going.
Keno: (nods) Hmmm, I don’t know about anyone else, but that inspired me! Question 3, Do you consider yourself primarily a poet, or do you write in other genres? If you do, what else do you like to write about?
Mr Taofeek: A poet is someone who possesses special powers of imagination or expression. Given that every poet is a writer, not every writer is a poet, I prefer the word “writer” to poet because I believe a poet does more than storytelling or article writing; he writes both stories and articles in a condensed yet rhythmic manner.“Poetry is a deal of joy and pain, and wonder, with a dash of the dictionary.” I have never met a soul who doesn’t love poetry. And yes, I write in other genres apart from poetry; I write articles, book reviews, scripts, and short stories. In fact, I am currently working on a novella.
Keno:(nods ) It’s interesting how you explain the concepts of poetry…. Question 4, Generally, a good number of people feel poetry is some complicated jumble of words that they usually struggle to comprehend. Do you think readers have to figure out the meaning of a poem, or should it be easy to understand?
Mr Taofeek: (smiles) There are different types of poems and poetry genres: lyric, sonnet, haiku, ballad, limerick, didactic. Each genre has its own style, pattern, word order, and diction. So not every poem is rigid or sophisticated. Some poets may employ complex metaphors, symbolism, or unconventional language, not all poetry is deliberately obscure or difficult to understand. There are countless poets who write in clear, accessible language, aiming to connect with readers on a deep emotional level. Poetry comes in various styles and forms, and not all of them require decoding or extensive analysis. But for me, today, tomorrow, and every day, I’ll always value and cherish poems with deep-rooted meanings that often require cogent thought to decipher. Isn’t poetry supposed to be simple, rhythmic, and enjoyable? Well! A poem can be simple, not sophisticated, rhythmic, not plain, and even enjoyed but not understood. So, you can taste and enjoy a poem without getting in touch with the core message. However, I believe that the success of a poem is defined by its ability to accommodate multiple interpretations. So, I write simple poems with rich meanings. If you read it once, you get one meaning; if you read it twice, you get two. An example:
This is a poem from “HONEYED BUTTERFLIES” it is simple, rhythmic and sweet. Although it’s a writer’s confession of his love for poetry but the same poem can also be used by an artisan, an engineer or a lover by substituting some literary terms.
(Disclaimer: this is not a legal permission to copy, replace or substitute any part of the poem.)
Keno: (nods) I see that. Wow! I’ll admit I personally do not know very much about the world of poetry. Thank you, your reply is such an eye opener… Question 5, In your opinion, what’s the best/worst thing about being a poet?
Mr Taofeek: As a writer and a poet, I can tell you firsthand that there is nothing more difficult than having to consider your audience. When writing poetry, it is critical that you think carefully about how you want your words to be interpreted. To truly convey your message, the way you phrase things can make all the difference. For instance, you might find yourself wanting to write with a certain pattern or diction that seems complex, but because of your audience, you are compelled to choose a simpler approach instead. You might choose to share a poem about loss and grief, but adjust the language and tone to make the poem uplifting and inspiring for your audience. Of course, this consideration for an audience can also make your writing process difficult, you might get stuck between choosing a word that rhymes or a word that your audience will comprehend. You want to make sure that you don’t sound too stuffy and that you’re avoiding any grammar or spelling errors. Most importantly, you want your poem to resonate with your readers. It can be so hard to find a balance between staying true to yourself and writing for someone else. At the end of the day, being a poet is hard work, but it can also be one of the most rewarding and fulfilling forms of self-expression. So don’t let the thought of an audience keep you from pursuing your passion and fully expressing your creativity in whatever way best suits you. Poets are the doctors of emotion, and I think this is one of the best things about being a poet because it gives you the privilege and ability to better understand and interpret emotions. It also gives you the ability to express yourself creatively through language. Poetry allows you to explore emotions, thoughts, and experiences in a unique and often powerful way. It also allows you to connect with others who may share similar experiences or emotions, creating a sense of community and understanding. Poets have the ability to narrate a sad story humorously; we have the ability to preach annoying truths benignly and draw serenity off dreadful events.
Keno: (nods) So poetry is not totally a bed of roses, but it is worth it! Question 6, If you were to describe your Poetry book: “HONEYED BUTTERFLIES” using a poem, how would it go?
Mr Taofeek: In pages woven with ink’s delicate art,
Keno: (smiles) So when I asked that question, I was literally thinking “the reply to this should be interesting” and it turned out to be! I may not know a lot about poetry, but I know enough to know that you’re an ingenious poet and this poem is excellent! Finally, Question 7, What have you been working on lately and what are you looking forward to in terms of your poetry writing?
Mr Taofeek: (smiles) I’m presently working on a memoir. I still don’t have enough to share at the moment. But my goal is to make poetry appealing to everyone, young or old, black, brown, or white. I want my pen to be able to reach for your hearts and make your minds gush. My goal is to serve myriads of honey with poetry, one lick at a time. My goal is to declare poetry free of the false accusation that poetry is only for intellectuals and academics and that poetry has to be complex and thought-provoking.
“Poetry is what in a poem makes you laugh, cry, prickle, be silent, makes your toe nails twinkle, makes you want to do this or that or nothing, makes you know that you are alone in the unknown world, that your bliss and suffering is forever shared and forever all your own.”
Dylan Thomas
Keno: I wish you great success as you undertake future endeavors. And I personally, will be following up on your journey. This was so inspiring. It was lovely to have you, Mr Taofeek. Thank you for this interview and for being our guest on theYOUNG AND BOOKED Series.
Mr Taofeek: (smiles) It was a pleasure to do this with you. Dear Readers, I would love to connect with you on Instagram.
Keno: Also, this is your invitation to join our Instagram community @taleofthebook if you aren’t already with us!. And you might want to check out Mr Taofeek’s book “HONEYED BUTTERFLIES”. It is honestly very affordable!
My goal is to make poetry appealing to everyone, young or old, black, brown, or white. I want my pen to be able to reach for your hearts and make your minds gush. My goal is to serve myriads of honey with poetry, one lick at a time. My goal is to declare poetry free of the false accusation that poetry is only for intellectuals and academics and that poetry has to be complex and thought-provoking.
-Author Taofeek
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